A resource on marital infedlity for all involved, even onlookers Written by respected pastor and marriage counselor Dave Carder, this revised and expanded version of Torn Asunder sorts through the factors that contribute to infidelity and then maps out a recovery process for both partners. With compassion and wisdom rooted in the Bible, Carder offers insight for the victims of adultery, the perpetrators, and those who seek to help hurting couples. Along the way Carder also answers questions like: Why did this happen? We didnat actually sleep together, so is it still an affair? Can I trust my spouse again? Should I reveal a secret affair? What if my spouse doesnat want me back? What do we tell the kids? This refreshed and updated edition is an excellent resource for pastors, leaders, and lay people. Pair this with the Torn Asunder Workbook to for extra guidance in applying the book's advice to your marriage.From this point forward, he cannot aquot;have his cake and eat it tooaquot;ahe must choose between the spouse and the ... It is important to prepare appropriately for such a process with another party, preferably a trained counselor, pastor, or trusted friend who can help guide the intervention. I also strongly recommend reading Love Must Be Tough by James Dobson.3 Some points to keep in mind as you ... Read the sample letter below, and consider how you could adapt it to your own situation.
|Author||:||David M. Carder, R Duncan Jaenicke|
|Publisher||:||Moody Publishers - 2007-05-01|