In her surprising, entertaining and persuasive new book, award-winning author and psychologist Susan Pinker shows how face-to-face contact is crucial for learning, happiness, resilience and longevity. From birth to death, human beings are hard-wired to connect to other human beings. Face to face contact matters: tight bonds of friendship and love heal us, help children learn, extend our lives and make us happy. Looser in-person bonds matter, too, combining with our close relationships to form a personal qvillageq around us, one that exerts unique effects. And not just any social networks will do: we need the real, face-to-face, in-the-flesh encounters that tie human families, groups of friends and communities together. Marrying the findings of the new field of social neuroscience together with gripping human stories, Susan Pinker explores the impact of face-to-face contact from cradle to grave, from city to Sardinian mountain village, from classroom to workplace, from love to marriage to divorce. Her results are enlightening and enlivening, and they challenge our assumptions. Most of us have left the literal village behind, and don't want to give up our new technologies to go back there. But, as Pinker writes so compellingly, we need close social bonds and uninterrupted face-time with our friends and families in order to thrive--even to survive. Creating our own qvillage effectq can make us happier. It can also save our lives. From the Hardcover edition.Then a Bank of America customer service agent named Tracey called, chatted withher sympathetically, and pointed out that anerror in her account meantthat an automatic payment was being ... number and said that I should call her directly anytimeIhad questionsor justneeded totalk about what wasgoingon. ... aThere are times when youjust want to speak to a real, live person about your money, aitread.
|Title||:||The Village Effect|
|Publisher||:||Random House Canada - 2014-08-26|